If you are in a relationship, it’s quite sure you know all relationships require some efforts to work further and move just like yours. Both partners need to be comfortable with each other and communicate properly and find a way to compromise and come to a mutually-agreeable solution. Both of them should encourage one another to grow. However if you find yourself in a situation where every disagreement leads to a battle or you have to change your point just to please you partner, that’s where you should think about your relationship. These are signs that you are trying too hard to make your relationship work.
And if you find yourself in this situation, trust me my friend; your relationship is not going to work much and it is not even worth your time. Of course there is nothing wrong if you try to make things resolve and talk to your partner and share your concerns. But putting too much effort from just one side won’t work to be honest. Here are few signs that you are forcing your relationship to work and should stop immediately.
You constantly fear of breaking up with your partner. Is it? Partners in a healthy relationship never constantly think about breaking up or have fear about that. You should be real with your partner, the way you are with yourself. Try bringing your fullest, most real self to the relationship by sharing what’s on your mind, speaking up about problems, and letting your personality shine.
Do you constantly put your needs behind your partner’s? Yes, it’s important to take care of your partner’s needs but you should never forget yours. You should be free to do whatever you want without your partner controlling over what you do.